Recently, I was talking to my youngest daughter regarding gaming and our conversation turned from online games to tabletop roleplaying.\u00a0 This is when she said:\u00a0 \u201cI really want to run a game, but I don\u2019t know how.\u201d \u00a0I was taken aback by this as my daughter is fairly bright, creative, and a good writer.\u00a0 At seventeen, she is preparing to begin her first semester of college in a few weeks and she had been playing RPG\u2019s with her friends from high school for about three years.\u00a0 Most of that experience has been with Pathfinder.<\/p>\n
Personally, I was the DM for some Basic D&D games back when I was 11 years old.\u00a0 I sucked, but I tried it and my friends at the time didn\u2019t care.\u00a0 I had tried introducing all of my kids to RPGs when they were much younger through Star Wars Miniatures.\u00a0 The kids had enjoyed it but my son was not impressed with tabletop gaming when World of Warcraft was available, his twin sister was more into anime rather than gaming, and my youngest was probably seven years old those first few times.\u00a0 Rather than push my hobbies onto them, I let them all develop their own likes and dislikes.\u00a0 A decade later, I was seeing the results:\u00a0 my daughter had not had a strong role-model as a GM and she was doubting her own ability to lead a game.<\/p>\n
This was the first time I had regretted not giving my daughter a better foundation with roleplaying.\u00a0 She had told me enough about her Pathfinder games to know that it was pretty typical of those with immature players; GM constantly tried to kill the players, he had one favorite player that was a girl he liked, etc.\u00a0 But through her adolescent introductory years in the hobby she had really not had a chance to watch a good GM at work.\u00a0 Granted, I\u2019m not perfect, but I\u2019ve had decades of my own missteps to learn something about the art of the GM.\u00a0 In the moment, I didn\u2019t have any pearls of wisdom to offer her except my confidence that I\u2019m sure she would be great as a GM; she\u2019s creative, good at writing stories, and she already knows what not to do as a GM.<\/p>\n
I\u2019ve had a lot of time now in the past week or so to think more about this exchange and I\u2019ve decided to help out my daughter by organizing my thoughts and giving her some solid guidance on how to be a GM.\u00a0 I\u2019m sure that other gamers who\u2019ve thought about taking on the GM role might also find some good information here.\u00a0 What I\u2019ve come up with are essentially \u201c10 Simple Rules for a New GM.\u201d \u00a0 I feel that these rules can be lumped into three core aspects regarding being a GM.\u00a0 The first four explain the \u201cRole of the GM,\u201d the next two concern \u201cCreating the World\u201d, and the final four involve \u201cBeing the GM.” \u00a0Together I hope that they result in a GM that knows the story they want to tell, can build the world where they want the story to take place, and then own it.<\/p>\n
I will be presenting the rules here over the next three weeks.\u00a0 To kick things off we will begin this week with Rule #1.\u00a0 This is the first of the four regarding the Role of the GM<\/em>.\u00a0 Come back next week for the second installment!<\/p>\n 10 Simple Rules for a New GM<\/u><\/strong><\/p>\n Rule #1 \u2013 Pick a game system and genre that you really enjoy!\u00a0 (Role of the GM<\/em>)<\/strong><\/p>\n When you choose to sit down at the head of the gaming table and be the GM you are, at the heart of things, making a commitment to tell stories.\u00a0 The way the players and you work together to tell those stories will be within the ruleset of the game system you choose.\u00a0 If you don\u2019t already know what game system you are going to GM and what setting you are going to play in, then this will be the next choice you will have to make.\u00a0 For example, I love Star Wars RPGs as I really love the Star Wars setting and I get just as much or more enjoyment from being the GM for Star Wars games as I do being a player of those games.\u00a0 So, whatever game system or genre you decide to GM make certain that it is one you enjoy or, better yet, are passionate<\/em> about!<\/p>\n As the GM you should have just as much fun as the players do.\u00a0 Someone asked me once:\u00a0 \u201cIf you like Star Wars so much, don\u2019t you want to play the game too?\u201d\u00a0 Of course I do!\u00a0 But I have never felt like I was suffering for the sake of my friends by taking on the GM role.\u00a0 I have the satisfaction of knowing that the adventures my players experience have come from my imaginary romps through the sandbox of George Lucas.\u00a0 The villains, allies, and plot twists they experience have all come from me.\u00a0 When the players successfully complete a heroic session and walk away from the table giving high-fives and swapping their war stories I feel the same rush they do as I was there with them.\u00a0 We have created a tale together.<\/p>\n I have played lots of games where I didn\u2019t really love the genre or system; the fun was in the people I was with.\u00a0 They were good games because the GM was vested in the story and that enthusiasm made the experience at the table fun for me.\u00a0 It is a much worse experience for everyone if the GM is clearly not \u201cinto\u201d the game.<\/p>\n Maybe the GM doesn\u2019t know much about the system or lore of the setting or maybe the players have different expectations?\u00a0 This was clearly why I\u2019ve never been able to run super hero games.\u00a0 Sure I know a lot of the lore about my favorite Marvel and D.C. heroes and I collected comics for a number of years, but my friends I played with in college all had PhD\u2019s in Super Hero Lore.\u00a0 My first and only attempt at being the GM for a Marvel Super Heroes game was an unmitigated disaster; my scenario lacked depth, the villains were woefully underpowered for the players, and I didn\u2019t have any experience using the system.\u00a0 Despite that initial experience I went on to play in a Marvel campaign for a number of years, but I never wanted to try running games in that system again.\u00a0\u00a0 The GM for the Marvel games I played in knew the setting, created compelling story arcs, and crafted memorable villains that challenged us.\u00a0 The world was a living, breathing world thanks to the life he put into his creation.<\/p>\n Whether your tales will involve high-sorcery, horror, space exploration, or a dystopian future, make certain that you have found the genre and system that works best for you.\u00a0 The stories you create will be memorable to both your players and you and will live-on beyond the session in your minds.\u00a0 Your players will appreciate the passion and depth you bring to the roleplaying experience!<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"